I've been emailing one of my old EFY counselors for the past 3 weeks or so and this is what we have figured out together.
We are given friendship to uplift us, not drag us down.
You pick your friends. Don’t let them pick you.
-You need to WANT to be your friends friend for some reason other than the fact that they want to be friends with you.
“He that loveth not knoweth not God” John 4:8
-Apply this to your life. Love everyone and try to see them as your Father in Heaven sees them. Everyone deserves to be treated as a child of God, because we all are. It’d not just you and it’s not just me-try to see His children through Heavens eyes- not just your own. Also remember to look at yourself in this regard as well. Because you are His child. You deserve to be around people who treat you this way. Also remember that to have friends you have to be a friend. So live the golden rule, but don’t let someone walk all over you. Friendships and Friends are not perfect.
Sometimes you get burned out and other times you really just don’t feel like helping people (everybody gets this way) because after a while if seems like no one will help you. But don’t think that way. Father in Heaven is always there for you.
When you help others, you help yourself. Charity is the most essential thing you can ever learn to practice in your life. It’s hard and its not something you get worldly rewards for. But when you help others, you help yourself. And someday someone will help you. Actually I’d rather phrase it this way. Someday someone will save you. They’ll save you from yourself and you’ll save them from theirself. That’s what love is about. And love isn’t just about romance. It’s about everything. We were given all the opportunities we were given so that we can excel and those oppertunities were given to us because HE LOVE YOU. If you don’t remember anything else I’ve said remember that. Love is the key ingrediant throughtout life. If you don’t, you have nothing. But you have to make that love for yourself.
Life Hurts. It’s always going to hurt. And its never going to stop. But that’s what makes it so incredible. I feel alone more than ever, even when I am with my friends here. But it’s ok. It is completely ok.
Life is sticky. It’s a mess, But learn to love it, because it you don’t you never will.
A few weeks ago I reached a point in my life when I realized that I am never going to be the smartest, the prettiest, the fastest, the most talented, and since then, everything has started to go a lot better. Because no one is all of those things.
The Lord doesn’t make mistakes, and He made ME.
2 comments:
I remember when I figured out what tiny little insignificant fish I was in the big BYU pond.
There was always someone who could do anything I (thought I ) was talented at - but they could do it 400 times better.
At first it was shocking, then a little depressing. But after that it was really freeing. Once I figured out that I didn't HAVE to be the best at anything, I was free to figure out what it was I liked and wanted to do.
Maybe that will be the same for you. Now you can just figure out who you want to be, and not who everyone expects you to be.
I do think, though, that the other key is to figure out that you get to CREATE who you are. It's not about finding yourself. It's about creating yourself.
Hannah this is so profound. A great life lesson. Take it and make a great life.
Have you done those tests aptitude tests? Althouth they are not absolute they are helpful to get direction.
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